Fluffiez@Blogspot!: A new life is born!

God.

He has brought new life into this world.

Congratulations to Rai and Anjula for having a healthy great looking daughter, Anishka Rania Rai.

After an excruciating 8hrs of labor, Anishka was brought into this world.

As it is deepavali, we were invited to Rai's house for food, chit chat and the main attraction, to see the new baby girl! Happy Deepavali to all!

She's probably the only Indian girl with a chinese godfather and mother. I being the father of course and Liang being the mother haha.

Her delicate head and soft skin was a great feeling to touch. I love the feeling of carrying a baby in my arms, even though i'm scared, the feeling is just great! i've always wanted to have children and since i don't have any yet, i'll just carry other peoples babies =)

Anishka possesses many of Rai's features. The forehead, the lengthy arms and legs, the nose and most importantly, the body hair. She's so cute and she's so adorable. You can't imagine how i felt when i saw her. It brought back memories and feelings of seeing my friends babies, back home in Toronto. It was a feeling i can't describe, a feeling that was lost for awhile. I'm glad to have been able to share the moment with Rai. Besides being nervous on the way, i was picturing so many images of my godson in Toronto and my friends babies back home. For a second there, i thought i deleted them from my memory. Thank god it's still there!

After being brought into this world after 10 days, she seems to be doing just fine. It's amazing how innocent and cute babies looks. They are amazed by the finest things in life and it's makes me wonder how we, as adults, forget the simple stuff around us. Example, gazing into the sky and dreaming or just being amazed by the amount of colors around us. Have you thought about where these things came from? probably not, but i'm sure a baby child is wondering, even though it may seem that they aren't.

Children are a blessing and people should cherish them, especially men. Many guys have a mindset of having the wife stay home and the men go out to work. Why can't it be the other way around? Why can't guys take care of their children and cherish the time they have? it's a rare find, which comes to my point, many men don't cherish what they have. Why you say? well exhaustion from work, stress, lack of interest in their kids and the so called 'duties' that wives perform, are just a few examples. Though you may see a loving father with their kids, but how much love are they really putting in? is it just a mere image on a time to time basis or is it as frequent as it's suppose to be? who really knows? not i!

going out of point a bit here but...

It's a proven fact that many men are turned off from their wives after they see their first child's birth. but why? is it disgusting to them? do they see something that the rest don't? could it be they see a child's head when the wife is crowning?

The answer is simple, many men don't understand the process of birth, they don't appreciate it and they feel that their wives are no longer appealing.

let me tell you this.

It takes a real 'man' to understand what birth is and the pain that your wives have to go through. It takes a real 'man' to cherish what they have and to show eternal love to their spouse.

As a man, i can understand the perspectives men have, it's grown in us. Blame it on testosterone if you may. However, i've taken the time to understand women, read up on pregnancies and learn about women in general. Though i may seem like some pervert that talks a lot of shit, i am actually the total opposite, well at least i think i am! I can understand what women go through, it's just too bad i won't be able to experience the process myself. I have always wanted to feel how it would be like to give birth. It's that process of giving birth that, if men understood, divorce rates and lust would probably be reduced drastically if not become obsolete.

Well, that's enough for now, before i press on someone's toes! These are my thoughts and views so don't take it to heart. We all have our own perspectives on life. This is just a mere souls thoughts! if you wanna discuss this or other issues..let me know =) i'm always available to talk!

Anyhoo, enough of the ranting and shit. I know you wanna see pictures now. If you have questions about my views, experiences or perspectives, feel free to contact me personally =)

Pix...